Do me without any apologies.
I don't know if you guys heard, there's this site called blah therapy. When you're feeling a bit down and need someone to talk to, you can vent your problems/rants to a stranger that may help with what you're feeling or hear them out and try to give advice/help. :)
It's a help or be helped site and it's amazing. It's free to talk to strangers that may help you. Just tonight I talked to one fabulous lady who enormously helped with what I'm feeling. She gave me really good female advice.
One of the things she said to me was, I shouldn't doubt myself and I should be able to own what I like. I agree with her 100%. If someone just has a problem with that, then it's their problem not mine. I don't live to please anyone. She also introduced me to a song about "doing you without any apologies". I really like that. She also said it kinda reminded her of me. It's called Grown Woman by Beyonce.
I love The Queen B.
I'm a grown woman
I can do whatever I want
I'm a grown woman
I can do whatever I want
I can be bad if I want
I can say what I want
I can live fast if I want
I can go slow all night long
I'm a grown woman
I can do whatever I want (whatever it is)
In the end, she added, "we girls should look out for each other". And yes, we do need to. :)
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